Bigravity

People believe they have the ability to “abolish the gender binary” by just declaring it so and calling themselves non-binary.

Shit, you’ve just highlighted it, made it more apparent, brought it into stark relief. Abolishing the gender binary is nearly as hard as abolishing gravity and about as likely to occur.

Ada Palmer pointed this out in her Terra Ignota series pretty well, though most who read it won’t understand what she’s getting at.