There is an inherent expectation to masculinity that men can suffer more, and this is right and good

Women are not expected to suffer. A woman in pain will always draw sympathy

A man in pain, he'll be told he needs to "man up"

— Alexander "Chadicus Rex" Cortes (@AJA_Cortes) June 23, 2020

This matches the experience of my childhood and young adulthood 100%. He’s not wrong even if I don’t agree with him politically on much.