Feb 25

Smart But

Exactly why I did not become a writer! I am a very good to great writer, and I can churn out high-quality writing very quickly with little editing required. But it’s still a terrible career. Writers make little and novelists fare on average worst of all.

Instead, I went into IT because I also enjoy computers and it pays well, has lots of employment options, and is not terribly geography-constrained. I’m comparatively much better at writing than I am at IT work but it doesn’t matter because writing can’t buy a retirement or an SS.

Feb 25

Car People

This thread is fully of funny stories about the SS. I thought the car would be more lowkey than it has turned out to be. To most, though, it does look like a cheapo family car, but car people know what it is and are interested in it when they notice exactly what it is.

The most memorable experience is I’d parked (as I always do) far away from everyone when going to a Walmart. When I return to my car, there’s a woman in an SUV taking pictures of my car with her phone. A lot of pictures. She saw me coming and drove away so I didn’t get to talk to her.

The other was someone who walked up to me in a parking lot asking about the car. “What is that, one of them cars from Australia, right?”

I said, “Yeah, it’s a Holden with a Chevy badge. Sold in limited numbers in the US as the SS.”

“What’s that got, like a V6 with 250 horsepower or so?”

I said, “No, it’s got the V8 LS3 Corvette engine with 415HP in it. It’s basically a four door ‘Vette.”

His mouth dropped open when he heard the HP numbers….

Feb 24

Training

You don’t really need to train 6-7 times a week like I do to see significant gains. I am doing that because I am willing to make the tradeoff.

And that tradeoff is that I work out twice as hard for maybe 25% more gains. If that math doesn’t work for you, you can cut your time and energy expended in half and forego only 25% of progress. My partner doesn’t work out nearly as often/hard as I do but she is still seeing large improvements.

As said, it’s a tradeoff. I am willing to expend a lot more effort in this case to see relatively not as much progress because I have the time and the interest (and the ability). But it’s not necessary to make substantial progress.

Feb 24

Kanga

Yes. The US judicial system is terrible and it’s still better than what happens in social media. And my side is the worst of all, unfortunately.

(Yes, I know that is satire. Great satire.)

Feb 24

MB Gecko

One of the things I like about living in Florida is that when you stick your hand in a dark mailbox, you never know what’s going to run away, scurry around, or possibly bite you. The possibilities are endless!

Feb 24

Smithy

I want a Smith machine. Used one a few times, but in the army I always had a spotter so it was never really needed. However, I am not very good at squats because I have terrible balance and this would be very helpful with that. Having one would also mean that I could bench without a spotter, too.

Also, fucking hell she’s huge! (In a good way.) That’s what spending 10+ years in the gym will do for you. Anyway, I like how unlike a lot of exercise videos she didn’t ramble on for an hour with something that only needs a few minutes.

Feb 24

Bun

I’m liking the show Bunheads better than I thought I would.

Unlike Amy Sherman-Palladino’s other show, Gilmore Girls, it tells more of a story and it’s not just a bunch of people chatting and whip-cracking witty quips until the quip whip quits. And of course, Emma Dumont, which is the best I’ve seen since Carrie Coon addicted me to The Leftovers. But once I got used to the very stage-play-like nature of the show it’s turned out to be a fun watch. Treats the lives of teenage girls respectfully and with humor, but is not just about them (was lensed when Emma D. was maybe 17-18) and has some sense of setting that Gilmore Girls for me just lacked.

I’m not sure I’d recommend it. It’s not to everyone’s taste. But it’s better than most other shows and it makes me laugh sometimes. The gag about a coupon for renting the Intrepid was particularly funny. And as I mentioned previously, Kelly Richards is also really good.

Feb 23

Aqua

If I were Bezos rich, I wouldn’t have a massive car collection, a bunch of houses or anything like that. What I’d have is the best aquarium ever seen on this planet. Well, aquarium complex. It’d make the one in Atlanta look like something constructed by a swarm of pikers. It’d be vast and comprehensive. It’d have constellations of keepers and tenders and scientists (I’d want real research to be done there), and a couple of days a week it’d be open to the public for free. Mess with my fish, though, and into the shark tank you go.

So that’s what I’d have. The largest and best aquarium on the entire planet.

Feb 23

Party

I think the party line from women has to be that all woman-uninitiated contact in public is harassment because women get so very much undesired contact.

As I’ve gotten slimmer, fitter and richer, though, I notice I get more contact initiated from women in public, especially if I am not with my partner. I don’t consider it harassment though it mostly doesn’t interest me either way. I have extremely low social capacity, though my social skills are pretty good these days.

Today at Morton’s (a local grocery store) for instance, a woman in my age range noticed me looking at pies in the case and said, “That one, that one right there is good.” She pointed at a chocolate mousse pie. Everything about her body language and approach told me she wanted me to talk to her more. I just wanted to get my dessert and go home, which I did (without being rude).

Branching off from that, it is definitely true that most feminist dating “advice” is absolute worthless garbage. If you listen to and follow any of that, good luck getting any dates ever. You don’t need to go full PUA but one of the reasons the PUA community is hated (apart from their raging misogyny) is because much of their basic advice works. Feminists like Amanda Marcotte see it as undesirable, geeky guys leveling up undeservedly, but it’s really just learning to be social and to read cues better. (I think this is most of the reason it’s hated, the Marcotte reasons, not the misogyny. To “feminists” like Marcotte, the mere existence of geeky, undesirable guys is misogyny.)

Feb 23

Lifters

Posting this because women are often told they should not lift weights. That’s terrible advice; you should get you some weights, heavy ones, and lift them fuckers.