Mar 20

Fabric

Aye. Zeynep focuses on the real issues, not the fabricated media ones.

Mar 20

Sex View

Liberals look at sex like a hostage negotiation, while conservatives see it as taking out the trash, with each other as the trash (especially the woman).

Mar 19

Fat Celebration Movement Winning

Why, just why, must we pretend that obesity is a good thing? Again, how does this help? Of course, we know who it helps: the food conglomerates and their shareholders. But how have people allowed such toxic corporate propaganda so far into their brains?

Try this: “Treating cancer is your ‘inner cop’ coming out. We must just accept cancer. Chemotherapy and doxorubicin are cancer-shaming, and we should just acknowledge the natural beauty of cancer. Wanting to change the cancer, to fix the cancer, just shows that you haven’t accepted the natural variation of humanity.”

Sounds fucking ridiculous, doesn’t it? Yet that’s exactly what these nutty buddies say about the disease of obesity. And we should critique their claims just as harshly.

Mar 18

Naturalism

That is true. People have said things like, “It’s cool that you are so naturally good with computers.”

No, I’m not. I just started when I was four years old. By the time I was sixteen, I therefore knew a whole lot. That’s a huge jump on most people. Getting good at something does indeed take a while, but it’s also not true that putting 10,000 hours into something will be enough. You also have to possess at least some natural inclination.

Mar 18

Civitas

I guess many countries are going to go with eternal lockdowns, despite not being terribly effective, because they tried nothing else, and all the nothing they tried also failed.

Makes total sense. If I ever get the patience, I will write something about how the embrace of lockdown by so many is a symptom of the utter failure of societal and individual imagination on all levels, and how the erasure of the social commons is a recapitulation of the expunction of the ideas of civic duty and civic virtue.

Lockdown is the sledgehammer applied to the ant, the nose excised to spite the face. It does work, sort of, but it’s a destructive tool that harms more than even those who realize its harm can admit.

Mar 18

SR

Fear is a message. But it isn’t always a useful one.

A lot of early feminist internet writing stressed fears, maybe most famously a now-offline piece called “Schrödinger’s Rapist” that was about the reluctance to talk to strange men in public. This was not a bad piece, but, like a lot of pieces from around that time, got steadily expected to do more and more work it couldn’t really do, and was never meant to. It was trying to explain to men why a woman might give them the cold shoulder and became, instead, a kind of total explanation of how women feel when men talk to them all the time.

It did; that piece became the excuse a lot of women used for why they treated men like garbage all the time. “Because every man might be a rapist, I am now going to treat them all horribly! It’s my right and duty as a feminist!”

I mean, terrible people of both genders are always going to find an excuse to treat others poorly, but that piece was the excuse for a whole lot of women to let their inner sociopath out. It was disappointing to see because I thought it was a good piece, for what it was. But misapplied, it was harmful.