Many women long for the invisibility middle age and beyond bring. Many then find they dislike it; being unseen, passing unnoticed and unremarked, isn’t as attractive as it had seemed before experiencing it.

Most men, though, know invisibility intimately from the start of grade school and only achieve any sort of notice briefly, if at all. Most average men wish they could at least sometimes receive even 1/10 the notice that even the most mediocre women frequently get.

But, as human nature goes, men probably would also dislike it after a short time.