One of the ways which social media and dating apps have destroyed women’s mental health is by leading mediocre women to assume they deserve and can get a top 1% man. Sure, it does happen sometimes, where a 5 woman ends up with a 10 man. But it’s rare. That 80%+ of women chase 1% of men is just devastating for them and of course hurts men too. It also harms society in general by greatly increasing unhappiness.

And note that I am not an incel. I am partnered and prior to that I’d been with more women than nearly all men. Not bragging; that’s just what happens when you go on a lot of dates. For a few years, I’d go out with anyone who said yes or anyone who asked me, just to see what happened. And, not surprisingly, a lot of those women and I ended up having sex.

So, not an incel. Just can see with my damn eyes.