Self-pity

I am constitutionally incapable of many things that normal people experience such as self-pity, jealousy and depression, among others.

So for that reason I am often puzzled by the things that people do, actions that just seem so counter-productive and avoidable from my perspective.

I realized when I was in the army that most people could make themselves many times more attractive with these few things: losing weight, being more confident, and dressing nicely.

It wonโ€™t turn you into Tricia Helfer or George Clooney, but it will take you from The Dude to Mads Mikkelsen on most days. Or for a woman from that little girl who crawls out of the TV in The Ring to Amy Poehler.

People donโ€™t want to hear those hard truths, though. People want to be told, You are perfect just like you are, you special, special snowflake.

No one today wants to be told โ€“ and there are whole industries and enclaves of society who stupidly promote avoiding this โ€“ that, yeah, you’d be better if you changed everything.

Goddamn, glad I didnโ€™t get that message, or at least did not listen to it. I canโ€™t think of how ghastly and dreadful my life would be if Iโ€™d taken that Tumblr SJW bullshit to heart.

Cloth

One of the things that most surprised me when I learned about it was just how fantastically difficult to produce and how expensive was most clothing before the industrial age.

That even well-off people might have hade only two โ€“ or at the most, three โ€“ outfits was a bit of a shock.

Most people have no idea that a decent outfit (including shoes) might have cost $5,000 in todayโ€™s dollars in 1700. It is just hard to imagine, Iโ€™ll grant. All for an ensemble that today might run $150 or less, if one finds a good sale.

That you can still find places that will sell you 5 t-shirts for $10 would absolutely amaze your ancestor from 1800. More than just about anything, Iโ€™d wager.