I canโt understand people. Men. Doing this to someone is inconceivable to me.
โHeโs one of my best friends.โ
Thatโs what gets me. Doing it to anyone is beyond my comprehension. But doing it to a best friendโฆhow is that possible? Iโd sooner harm myself than Iโd harm any of my friends.
Thereโs a great, intense scene in the pilot for the never-made TV show Virtuality where a Marine discusses her rape at the hands of people sheโd considered colleagues, friends. It is a grim scene but also captures the heartbreaking sense of betrayal that I think Iโd certainly feel if anything like that had ever happened to me.
I know itโs not the right answer, but I could murder that guy and feel nothing. What good is he to society? If you canโt even not prey on your friends, you are human trash. And trash needs to be taken out and buried.