I just realized something about a meeting I had regarding infrastructure over a year ago with a company that works with the one where I now work (when I was still contracting part-time). They had asked me for an in-person meeting to hear me discuss prospective infrastructure for the application we provide.
I did so, and made a really comprehensive possible design including a very thorough design diagram. Then when the infrastructure was actually implemented, none of my design elements were included. Not a single one.
Looking back now, I realize they brought me in to mostly show me up and demonstrate their own knowledge/superiority (this is very common in IT, alas) but when I was actually in the door, they had no idea what the hell I was talking about because they actually didn’t have that much experience. That explains the odd questions I was asked, as well as several factually incorrect statements they made to me.
Literally I did not realize until now, but it explains so much, and their later hostility and passivity. There’s a certain breed of IT people rather than trying to learn from you, exhibit hostility and resentment when you prove to know more than they do (especially if they brought you in to specifically show you up).
That explains so much. Wish I’d realized it sooner.
