Please Mansplain

I wish someone would mansplain this stuff to me, as I am terrible with directions.

I have literally driven past my own house before (many times) because, as I said, I am fucking terrible with directions.

Please always mansplain to me where I need to turn, because if you don’t tell me I will probably miss it.

Huggermugger

The “progressives” were already de-normalizing hugging as “harassment” and the pandemic is going to make that far worse. So much being lost that idiots seem to be cheering on.

Things Past

What this post is discussing is related to (though not quite the same) as something I’ve thought about a lot in the last few years — and that is how very readily people forget events and stats of affairs that occurred in their own lifetimes.

They remembered when people could easily find a local job if they wanted one, even without a staggeringly expensive degree and massive debt. When you didnโ€™t have to move far away from your family if you didnโ€™t want to. When you could afford to raise family on a single breadwinnerโ€™s salary. When you could buy a house in your 20s. A time when there werenโ€™t quite so many boarded up storefronts, panhandlers, food banks, or people living in their cars. When small local businesses thrived instead of just Wal-Mart and Amazon. They told these stories to their children as if they were describing some sort of long-vanished and forgotten culture, even though it had existed within their own lifetimes.

This is puzzling to me. Extremely so. I’m 44, and I recall things and ways we used to be that people who were also there claim “never happened.” I know they are wrong, very much so, but how do people forget so much so easily? I need to understand this and just don’t.