I don’t know anything about this photo but I like it:

Men ONLY:

What is something that makes any woman instantly attractive?

— Lovers’ Guide 💟 (@guideforlovers) March 27, 2022

If she has a really great laugh.

Bayesianism is a giant conjunction fallacy.

— Lulie (@reasonisfun) March 25, 2022

??

Then so is the universe. Frequentism offers no predictive power. It can only tell you what has happened in the past. Bayesianism tells you what might or is likely to occur in the future. That is why it is superior for most human-level practices.

What does it mean that when I see a woman, and I like the way she looks my brain goes “awwww” (not out loud that would be rude) and I get a burst of happiness, but don’t feel like having sex or fantasizing about it like i hear others do? Guys even less reaction.

I don’t think this is actually that unusual. Many guys don’t think about sex all the time, or all that frequently. I love sex and my reaction to seeing an attractive woman almost never is “I want to have sex with her.” And never has been. Even when I was a younger man and my libido was much higher, I was not primarily sexually motivated.

I know that feminists don’t allow it, but not every man is the same. And I’m lazy. Sex is a lot of work and often more hassle than it’s worth. And I say that as someone who loves sex, again.

So…seems pretty normal to me.