Standards Issue

AITA for telling my co-worker she should either lower her standards or stop complaining about being single?

Since women largely control the dating market, many of them set absurd standards that they themselves aren’t anywhere close to meeting. Many will thus rightly die alone. Sometimes it might happen that a woman who is at best a 3 in personality and looks bags an 8 to 10 dude, but it don’t happen often. And yet many women expect this and will settle for nothing less.

Ah well, the cats need cat ladies. Works for me.

Try a Little Tenderness

Feminism’s third and fourth waves (and other involved parties such as PMC liberalism) made a huge mistake when they decided that interpersonal relationships can only be understood via the lens of power and that power is all that is relevant therein. This has been hugely destructive to society in general and even to their own cause(s).

While power differentials are worth considering, prior to the feminist/PMC lib propaganda operation poisoning so many minds the primary focus of relationships was rightly on love, affection and compatibility.

All of us should chill a bit and take the advice of Otis Redding* and try a little tenderness instead.

*Yes, I know he did not write this song and was not the first to perform it. But everyone knows his version.