Nope To It

Do men actually imagine having sex with every woman they meet?

No the hell we do not. I’d say that happens basically never for me, and probably more often for some men. But even women I find attractive I very, very rarely think about sex with them or what it’d be like (maybe once every 2-3 years if that?). Even then it’s a fleeting thought and not really anything substantial.

This was true even when I was 18-22 by the way.

That men are just ravening sex beasts is just not true.

Beast

Some women are so convinced men are nothing but unthinking sex beasts that they believe that the only reason we go or live overseas is to sleep with foreign women, the only reason we’d ever talk to a woman is to attempt to bed her, and the only thing we ever think about is sex.

These pathetic women are more telling on themselves, of course, with this set of beliefs than revealing anything about men in general. I remember some blog I went to written by a couple of idiots (both women, but that’s incidental to idiocy) that asserted in extremely confident tones that the only reason any man became an ex-pat was to sleep with poor foreign women. (And why this is even bad if it were the case — which of course it is not — is also a mystery.)

These foreign women were assumed by the these clown blog women to have no agency at all, and were just somehow forced to have sex with ex-pat men because they appeared in country. That’s one of the things that bothers me most about the recent consensus: women anywhere are assumed to be as children, with no ability to make decisions and no way to possibly resist these horrid foreign men. It does not and did not occur to those blog (and other) women that the Slovenian women in question might’ve very much wanted to sleep with who they slept with. Never even a fucking thought about that.

Hilariously and nearly invariably, these same “all ex-pats are secretly rapists” women will lustily recount their overseas study semester in Italy that they spent with the smoldering but aloof Matteo or Emiliano — and they won’t recognize the hypocrisy or just base stupidity of that at fucking all. Because they want it both ways and they hate the competition foreign women represent to their undesirable asses.

Feminism went way, way wrong somewhere.