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Do girls like dangerous/violent guys?

No, not in general, but women are very (probably too) attracted to confident guys (mostly) and those two qualities often go together. And too often women mistake โ€œdangerous/violentโ€ for confidence โ€” when anyone who is a guy knows that belligerence is often just a way to mask insecurity and weakness. Try to convince many women of that, though, and youโ€™ll get called an โ€œincel.โ€

But they usually find out โ€” unfortunately for them โ€” on their own. Some lessons can only be learned the hard way for most people, women or men.