Mal Growl

Why are so many people so quick to react with aggression and even violence to perceived disrespect by a stranger?

Itโ€™s a maladaptive tendency that is not maladaptive if you grow up feral in a place like rural North Florida. There, if you endure disrespect even once you are then shit on constantly forever. Aggression is the correct response there โ€” but not in much of the rest of the world.

I am not naturally a violent person but North Florida made me participate in violence so much that I just got used to it. That (among many other things) is what is so terrible about those kind of places. Itโ€™s not North Florida, but if you want to know what a place like that feels like, watch Winterโ€™s Bone. It gets both rural poverty and the violent nature of such places as where I grew up more correct than any other movie Iโ€™ve seen.