Health

Jonathan Haidt Blamed Tech for Teen Anxiety. Managing the Blowback Has Become a Full-Time Job.

When you’re wrong there’s not massive blowback. No one cares about you when that happens. When you’re right, though, against powerful interests like big tech, there’s blowback and attempts to discredit you with flimsy but plausible propaganda. It’s startlingly obvious that smart phones and social media is an incredibly harmful combination, particularly for children and for women’s mental health and stability.

The hugely disingenuous attempt by many to conflate Haidt’s previous advocacy of allowing children freedom to roam with the “freedom” to be manipulated algorithmically by ruthless and unaccountable tech companies via smartphone — dang, I’ve heard stupider things in my life, but not very fucking many.

Of course Haidt’s main thesis is correct. People just don’t want to believe how much of a massive mistake we’ve all made, and how much we’ve harmed ourselves and younger generations. It’s a terrible destruction we’ve wreaked with no apparent end. That’s why no one wants it brought into the light and why anyone who discusses it is accused of “moral panic” and told to get with the times.

Who Should Fail

Yeah, that was always gonna be a failure. Women 100% cannot handle rejection and would do fucking anything to avoid it. They expect men to be the ones taking all the rejection and the chances in life.

I’ve had a variant of this conversation with more than one female friend:

Her: I like him but he just never seems to notice.

Me: Notice? He won’t notice. Good guys don’t presume anymore. You have to tell him. So why don’t you?

Her: What if he doesn’t like me and says no?

Me: That’s the risk a guy takes a million times in his life. And a lot of women attempt to ruin your life if you express any interest. That’s just how it goes.

Her: I’m not going to say anything.

Me: Then you’ll end up with nothing. Welcome to guy world.

Feminism for thee but not for me is all the rage the past decade and more. It is funny that women believe men have trouble with rejection when it’s pretty much our whole lives, but if an attractive woman experiences rejection even once it’s the end of the world.

80s Like

This is accurate, especially if you were in the middle or lower class (me). Most of what we had in the 1980s was stuff from the 1950s-1970s and it all looked about like that. I slept on the 1950s pillows with the horizontal lines on them, for instance. Everything was cheap wood paneling and lots or orange and umber and blah.

Ant

Girls give guys panties, is there anything that girls like to receive that has the same impact?

What? I don’t want some (or any) girl’s damn panties. What the hell is this? What the fuck am I supposed to do with panties I can’t even wear? I recognize some guys have a fetish for this, but this post makes it sound like a common thing and it’s just not.

If you think I want your panties, I really really do not. And neither would most guys.