A woman on Reddit (sorry, lost the comment) said a lot of women get tattoos to deliberately make themselves unattractive to men. And yeah, I guess I can kind of see that? Seems drastic but I know there is a lot of unwanted attention and harassment.

But that is hard to understand from a man’s perspective as most men spend vast amounts of time and money hoping for even a bare scrap of a woman’s attention for a fraction of a second.

So that is a vast difference. Seems unbridgeable sometimes, especially when you’re actively dating.