Iโm bad at forums and community in general. I just am not a joiner. I wish I could be but Iโm not and I will probably never change.
One of the reasons I run a blog is because I know this about myself and I know that no one wants me all up in their shit. I always quickly get banned. Iโd ban me too. Iโm frustratingly persistent, do not care about making nice when Iโm right, and often piss off the most respected members of forums because if theyโre wrong, respected or not, they are still wrong.
I care more about being right and knowing whatโs what than appeasing, pleasing, or making nice so everyone gets along. If thatโs wrong, so be it. I can take it.