Itโs still happening even with modern conflicts. Just today, saw some goober arguing that itโd be better (more โpeacefulโ) if Ukraine had just rolled over and surrendered to the Russians because Putin had very valid security concerns that justified killing tons of Ukrainians, and that the rest of Eastern Europe should also acquiesce when Putin comes calling (also for โpeaceโ).
These people are terrible. But they are common.
