How to accept I am not most womenโs cup of tea and thatโs not the end of the world?
Who cares? Most men arenโt most womenโs cup of tea. Women are a hundred times pickier than men and most women think nearly all men are unattractive. The opposite is not the case. Thatโs what makes dating extremely difficult for men unless youโre in the top few percent. Even then, the average woman still has a better time of it than all but the top 0.1% or so of men. The odds are stacked against you from the start unless youโre Robert Redford in his prime or someone like that.
So donโt worry about it. You canโt change biology or culture. Social media has really very deeply harmed women mentally as a whole lately, too, which has made it even worse. So just have fun. Thereโs plenty of other things in life.