AITBF for not liking when women change their persona when they find out I’m gay?

This is interesting because something I think most women don’t realize is that straight men experience most women as extremely cold and hostile. It really colors one’s view of women. If I didn’t have a good number of close women friends, in general I’d think women are quite terrible — because that’s the treatment most straight men get most of the time. To us, 99.9% of women are experienced as glacial, distant, and mildly bellicose. (And then women go on and wonder why men do not have women friends. Well, that is why!)

Yes, yes, shut the fuck up, I know why all that it is, but it’s a terrible feeling to be iced out because you happen to be male. And I don’t even think it makes sense most of the time because most women (and most people in general) are incredibly terrible at judging actual risk.

But that’s a whole other topic.