I'm tired of adult fighting men whining.

"Women sometimes say no!"

First of all, that's healthy – if at a reasonable level. Makes you go out to train and earn money. Nature is real.

But also, what percentage of my junior exec followers ARE married with kids, so that that even…

— Wilfred Reilly (@wil_da_beast630) June 17, 2025

Exactly. Besides the obvious misogyny, my main problem with the incels is that you definitely do not attract women (or anyone) by sitting around carping and complaining like a four-year-old. That gets you nowhere. Anything is better than that and is more likely to lead to success, romantic or otherwise.

Being out in the world and doing things has an infinitely-greater chance of good experiences as compared to sitting in a basement somewhere and posting on Twitter all day. You don’t even have to do traditional “manly man” stuff (if you are a man). Go to a painting class! Take a course at the local community college! Go do pottery! Join a hiking group! A book club! The possibilities are quite literally endless.

As I’ve said before, incels are not wrong about the nature of the problem. What they are wrong about is punishing women for their (mostly) self-caused deficiencies. As with desperation, complaining is attractive to no one.