It’s not great becoming a man and being told that no matter your intent, you definitely have malicious intent. What you actually do, say, or how you act do not matter. If you do anything as a man, especially if it involves a woman, it must be terrible or some subterfuge to get someone to sleep with you.

Why don’t men get all the benefit of the doubt that women invariably do, which they receive still by the buckets even when they actually do something horrible?