Random but what sorority life taught me was that being relatively attractive is mostly a matter of

– healthy weight
– normal hair color/length
– no crazy tattoos/piercings
– dress in normal, flattering clothes
– have friends who do the same

Genetics are such a small part of it https://t.co/aCVAkRJcrr

— Allie (@allie__voss) August 7, 2025

Women have an easier time of it, but so few make an effort (or even an anti-effort with tattoos) and then complain they can’t bag that 0.01% dude they “deserve.”

Nearly any woman can be a 7 by doing the things Allie mentions — that is, be thought attractive by 95% of men and 60% of women she meets (women have higher standards). All most men care about as far as what will attract them¹ is that you’re not fat, don’t have tons of disfiguring tattoos, dress flatteringly, and don’t act like an absolute freak in public.

That so many women — supposedly the “emotionally intelligent” gender — fail to understand that or even deny it outright is pretty amusing and mystifying. Though I do think it’s cosmic justice that the horrible tattoos many women get means those top 0.01% men won’t even look once at them, much less twice. Did that to yourself, ladies. Live with it.

1. Which is the most important part of dating! Without that, nothing else happens.