I think one of the reasons women have trouble on the internet is that in real life, they are used to special treatment most of the time. They are accustomed to being handled gently the vast majority of the time by most people.
On the internet, that goes away. I certainly do not attempt to treat women cautiously here. They said they want equality; I give it to โem. Others are the same. Turns out equality feels like punishment and being mistreated.
Welcome to the world men have always lived in! Nice to have you!