Why are people so harsh towards guys who are looking for women to date?
In most matters, women always get the benefit of the doubt. Men almost never do.
Thus, man looking to date: Just wants sex. Probably wants to abuse women. Must not be able to meet women โnaturallyโ (whatever the fuck that means these days). Most likely a rapist looking for victims. Pitiful.
However, woman looking to date: Aww, poor baby. She deserves the best. Why wonโt anyone give her a chance, despite her glaring personality flaws and mental illness? She deserves a high-worth man over six feet tall, and in Hugh-Jackman-at-his-peak shape, even though she could defeat a whale shark by mass alone in single combat, doesnโt work, and is 4โ11โ.
The standards women are held to are vastly different than those men are held to. Anyone who denies that is smoking all the crack.