An interesting thing about a lot of feminist analyses is that they are VERY clearly written by atypical women who grew up outside of female power structures (sororities, gossip blocs, Junior League, Women's Circle, etc) and greatly under-weight female-coded strengths.

In most…

— Wilfred Reilly (@wil_da_beast630) November 20, 2025

Yep, yep. Pretending a 25-year-old woman is some innocent, agentless clueless naïf in a relationship like that is fucking delusional. It’s actually insane. And I think that Wil is right in his identification of the culprits. This at-odds-with-reality belief is held almost exclusively by women who are atypical and disconnected from normal women. By that I mean women who aren’t so obsessed with quantification of everything to the nth degree — women who just want to live life and have fun.

And of course it’s also a story a lot of women like to tell so they can avoid responsibility or accountability for anything. But it’s not true just because they say it.