I think where I started to part ways with modern feminism is that during the mid- to late-2000s, there was the idea that consent can’t be given when people are drunk. I don’t agree with this completely, but ok, I can see where this is coming from. If my partner wants to have sex with me when I’m drunk, go to it. I don’t care.

However, what caused the beginning of the rift is that many feminists were adamant that if the woman was sober and the man drunk, the woman bore no responsibility at all, but if the man was sober and the woman even had a slight bit of alcohol, this proved the man was a bad and evil rapist.

I didn’t know it at the time, but I guess this is where mainstream feminism turned away from equality and towards whatever it’s concerned with now, which has nothing to do with anything I care about.