If you use dating apps, I highly recommend making a temporary fake account of the opposite gender to see what it's like, the experiences are night and day. Much easier to navigate and empathize if you understand what your counterparts are dealing with. https://t.co/Bpqf5sdgsV

— Ben Landau-Taylor (@benlandautaylor) September 22, 2021

Yep. If you’re a woman 18-40 and at all even remotely look ok-ish in favorable light and aren’t an obvious meth user (and even then….) you’re absolutely spoiled for choice. You’re likely to get dozens or hundreds of men contacting you a day.

Meanwhile, for 90% of men, it’s complete crickets. Almost no women seem to actually realize this, either.