Feminism’s third and fourth waves (and other involved parties such as PMC liberalism) made a huge mistake when they decided that interpersonal relationships can only be understood via the lens of power and that power is all that is relevant therein. This has been hugely destructive to society in general and even to their own cause(s).

While power differentials are worth considering, prior to the feminist/PMC lib propaganda operation poisoning so many minds the primary focus of relationships was rightly on love, affection and compatibility.

All of us should chill a bit and take the advice of Otis Redding* and try a little tenderness instead.

*Yes, I know he did not write this song and was not the first to perform it. But everyone knows his version.