My partner of two years didn’t know what color my eyes were.

I do not have a visual memory at all. I know my partner’s eyes are blue because I remember the word “blue” in association with her eyes. But I don’t see the color in my head and just cannot remember that sort of thing well. Aphantasia. I’ll never recall it without it being word-based. Many people are similar. I have gotten in trouble for not knowing what a previous girlfriend’s eye color was because I’d never tried to commit it to memory it. So now I do.

I don’t know anyone else’s eye color, really. Not having a visual memory will do that to ya.