These are both definitely something 99%+ of women do not understand about being a man:

And I think those two go together. A woman I was friends with years ago was at first convinced at first I befriended her in some harebrained attempt to get sex. Then, bizarrely, she started getting insecure that I actually did not appear to be after sex from her. That was crazy-making and the friendship did not last.

About the threat thing, more women have been violent toward me by far than I have been violent toward any women*. It’s not even close. So, again, who exactly is the dangerous one?

*Because my “violent toward women” count stands at 0, where it shall remain. At least that I have initiated. That does not include sparring and hand-to-hand combat classes.