This doesnโt match my experience at all.
Specifically, this part.
โImagine youโre in a meeting and someone plops a big box of doughnuts on the table,โ Mann said. โTo resist this doughnut, itโs not a one-time thing. You resist it when you first notice it, and you resist it every time you look up and see it again. I know Iโd be tempted every time I looked up!โ Resisting the doughnut, in other words, requires not just one act of self-control, but many โ not to mention that each time you resist, it gets a little more difficult to do so, as self-control is thought to be a limited resource.
Do normal people really work this way? I am a stubborn, stubborn motherfucker so I guess I just donโt think like this at all.
When I decide something, itโs decided. If I decide not to eat the donut, I donโt eat the donut. Simple as that.
I truly do think having military experience helps with that sort of thinking and control. And just being naturally stubborn to start with.
For as similar as humans truly are, things can seem awfully different. I just canโt imagine being so, for lack of a better word, weak.