Much of evolutionary psychology is absurd, but itโs also fucking ludicrous to insist that neither men nor women were selected evolutionarily for features that were attractive to the other sex.
This is just the way it is, sorry, hurt feelings wonโt change this. Evolution doesnโt give a crap about your wishes, beliefs, illusions or utopias.
That this even has to be stated is whatโs absurd.
When ideology meets reality, Iโm gonna choose reality every time.