For the unattractive men, what’s a harsh memory that sticks with you?

I don’t think I’m unattractive any longer, but growing up my North Florida compatriots certainly thought I was lower than pond scum by any measure.

That said, my experiences were similar to this dude’s: More than once, girls/women approached me completely unprompted to tell me how hideous I was and to not even think of asking them out.

This was with me not even looking their way or even noticing them (as they were themselves nothing special). Of course, this is just a female version of bullying. Women tend to be non-physical with it.

Just leaving North Florida eliminated 99.9999% of that type of thing. The nature there is great; the people are fucking terrible.