Looking To

Why are people so harsh towards guys who are looking for women to date?

In most matters, women always get the benefit of the doubt. Men almost never do.

Thus, man looking to date: Just wants sex. Probably wants to abuse women. Must not be able to meet women “naturally” (whatever the fuck that means these days). Most likely a rapist looking for victims. Pitiful.

However, woman looking to date: Aww, poor baby. She deserves the best. Why won’t anyone give her a chance, despite her glaring personality flaws and mental illness? She deserves a high-worth man over six feet tall, and in Hugh-Jackman-at-his-peak shape, even though she could defeat a whale shark by mass alone in single combat, doesn’t work, and is 4’11”.

The standards women are held to are vastly different than those men are held to. Anyone who denies that is smoking all the crack.

Worst V

For sure, social media and smartphones have absolutely destroyed women’s mental health and their ability to operate in society. It’s caused bad things in men certainly, but in women it’s been utterly devastating.

Not sure what to do about it, but it’s allowed all too many women to become the very worst versions of themselves 24/7.

Fielded

One of the reasons is I am not worried about competition at my level is I have an extremely diverse skill stack, am an expert in 7+ areas, and there is no competition coming up behind me. There is even less now, actually, because AI is hollowing out junior-level roles so the competition that was on the way will never emerge. And at the moment, AI can only do about 5% of my role (and even that, poorly).

Destroying the junior to senior pipeline is terrible overall and clownish, but means no one will be taking my job. There simply will be no one left who could do it.

Drive To

I think this is substantially true. Urbanists have no idea how much fun and freeing driving can be in rural areas. I used to love driving from Lake City out to the river, for instance.

About freedom, a larger point: both the left and right right are substantially anti-freedom, in their own ways. The left’s version of this wish to control is to attempt to take away things like cars, the ability to live where one pleases, the modern conveniences of life and other related degrowther baloney. They just dress it up in “good” reasons like “preventing climate change” and “saving the environment.” Whether any of their nonsense would do any of that is irrelevant. It just has to seem plausible enough to grant them control over you.

Both sides wish for this dominance, and both sides ram it in however they can.

Soc Acc

I didn’t realize until entirely too late in life that the common women’s plaint, “Every man wants to sleep with me! They always bother me!” wasn’t a real thing, but a humblebrag.

It’s a socially-acceptable way of saying, “I’m very hot and desirable. Look at how gorgeous I am!”

Of course, women do get bothered in public by men. That certainly happens sometimes. But the reality is that the majority of women are just average and most men have better things to do than even think about that woman (or any woman) for a single second.

It’s a manufactured reality to praise one’s self while appearing to be beset by problems. Thus, it’s quite clever in its way.

Obfus

Back then, UI was intended to make the operating system more usable and discoverable for the end users. It was not intended as a resume-builder for UI/UX types and was not aimed primarily at looking pretty for 15 seconds on a PowerPoint slide shown to MBAs.

That’s all changed. Additionally, modern OSes and applications are explicitly designed to steer you to ads and away from useful functionality.

Enshittification fully in action.

Alignment Problem

It sure is convenient that corporate interests align so very well with preventing dear old Grammy from sending her money to scammers in Nigeria (which she of course does anyway).

Surely it’s just coincidental that Google, Apple, Mozilla and Microsoft preventing me from installing software on devices I fully and wholly own and surveilling me 24/7 are what is required to keep gramma and the kids safe.

You people who buy into all that, are you fucking stupid? What the goddamn hell is wrong with your brains? Do you just have no critical discernment nor ability to detect specious, risible arguments at fucking all?

FUCK.

Cumen But Not Spicy

Same. And I don’t want to be anyone’s stock picker or be blamed for their (or my own) missteps.

I don’t require anyone’s validation. I own a house free and clear and have a secure1 retirement as a result of my financial acumen. I don’t need to convince a soul. The proof is what I’ve done. If that doesn’t convince you, the depths to which I don’t give a fuck are infinite and unprospected by me.

  1. Unless Trump totally tanks the economy forever, which might happen.

The Whole Point

This isn’t some slantwise intepretation. This is what the Dune books are about. Frank Herbert was very explicitly exploring how charismatic revolutionaries, even when they start outside the system, tend to reproduce the same oppressive structures they overthrow. That’s, like, the entire point of the whole series.

That’s not being clever, this interpretation. That is just being able to read. Dang.

Fclown

It is insane. Culture wars make people utterly brainless. I do all the things that work and avoid the things that don’t. And these work: lifting weights, healthy eating, GLP-1 agonists1, and creatine. Also, mRNA vaccines are awesomesauce and vaccines in general are hugely beneficial to everyone.

Believing or doing anything else is fucking clownish.

  1. I have never taken this, but not opposed to it.

Econ BS Preemption

Yes, yes, houses were smaller in 1960, insert the usual economist blah blah bullshit here. The point is that it was far easier to buy a house in 1960. And I can’t buy part of a fucking house. No matter what the econs say, it’s just a more difficult time for younger people.