I wonder how many of the same men who are virulently homophobic and against the idea of gay marriage have happily watched lesbian porn? I bet itโs a very large percentage.
The problem with being born a man is you are associated by women (for understandable reasons) with all the bullshit that other men believe and do.
The problem with being born a woman or a gay man, though, is even worse โ you must then directly experience all of the bullshit that all too many men believe and do.
Raw deal either way, really.