In my opinion the Left uses the idea of social conditioning too much.
Well, the Right โ letโs not even talk about their crazy ideas. I talk about and criticize my side because itโs the one I care about.
Anyway, itโs an omnipresent idea on the Left that we are only attracted to certain bodies because thatโs what we were conditioned with as we matured.
I think this is to some extent true, but the Left stupidly believes this is 99.9% of attraction and Iโd guess itโs more like 20% to 30%.
Testing these things is nearly impossible, however.
Itโs also probably a sliding scale of social conditions, economic conditions and other factors that are hard to quantify.
This relates to the self-excusing idea that as more Americans become unhealthily fat that men just arenโt attracted to obese women because itโs some sort of social conditioning.
I disagree, for the most part.
Physical attraction (for both sexes) is probably at least partially based on using phenotypical proxies for genotypical health and fitness and is not acculturated. Iโd guess 80% or so, but who really knows.
Anecdotally, Iโve always been attracted to thin to very thin women; I had a babysitter when I was no more than four named Anita who was very tall, lithe and athletic.
At the time I thought she was the most beautiful girl Iโd ever seen.
Nope, even I hadnโt been reading any magazines or consuming all that much television at that point. It had never even occurred to me what sort of girl I liked before I saw her.
Anita however was so lovely to me it was absolutely galvanizing; I could barely talk to her. (This is why I also believe that gay people do know they are gay very early. I certainly knew I was straight that early thanks mainly to Anita.)
Iโve always been attracted physically to thin women. I donโt think is something that was acculturated in me. And nope, for the Freudians, my mom wasnโt thin and neither was anyone else in my family.
The Left has its own fairy stories that arenโt nearly as pernicious nor as harmful as the Rightโs, but they exist nonetheless.
That attraction is mostly acculturated is most likely one such story.