If the amount of time that pseudo-feminists spent arguing over whether โgirlโ or โwomanโ was appropriate and in which situations could be somehow directed at useful pursuits, a lot more progress could be made on actual feminism.
Arguing over words is mostly a distraction, and a useful one to patriarchy and to the powerful.
This despite the fact that itโs also really, really common to use โboysโ to refer to adult men. And many adult men use โwomanโ as an insult. Should we ban that word, too?
Such a non-issue about something completely irrelevant. Banning words does absolutely nothing. Changing culture does.