Liberals today are obsessed with age gaps in relationships for some reason (perhaps because they are amenable to easy quantification*), but the intelligence gap is far more determinative of who holds actual power in a relationship. Itโs not the only factor, of course, but itโs a big one.
But itโs verboten, mostly, in the lib mind to talk about intelligence and itโd mostly never occur to them to apply this lens to relationships.
But Iโm right and they are wrong.
*The ability to easily and in small sound bite/Twitter bite form quantify something seems to mostly control whatโs allowed to be discussed now. Algos winning.