Autoabuse

sometimes i remember these photos of Kristen Stewart and Janelle Monae and my ovaries explode.

At the time these were taken, Monae was in her 30s and Stewart was still in her 20s. According to modern lib/fem doctrine, that is automatically abuse โ€” if it were a male/female pairing. So why is it not abuse in this case?

(Note that I donโ€™t think any pairing of any gender above the age of majority is automatically abuse, but many do these days. In fact, I think men and women should date a wide range of ages throughout their entire lives.)