I pay for tinder and bumble, swipe right on 85% of the girls I see. I'm lucky to get a match a week across both platforms. Of these matches, I have had one successful friendship, apart from that 0 that have even gotten to a single date. I've been swiping for 7 years.

— Cole Osborne (@BKDenied) March 21, 2021

Women don’t realize it, because they get so, so many offers (if they are not in the bottom ~5% of attractiveness), but that’s the average man’s experience dating.

Average woman: gets approached 2-3 times a day.

Average man: gets approached 1-2 times in his lifetime, gets rejected constantly starting from childhood.

Quite a difference! It’s no mystery why some men get bitter about it all. It’s an extremely asymmetric and bad experience, for life.