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Why do dating apps bring out the worst in men?

The worst in men? LOL. Like women are any better. Often worse, but in (sometimes) different ways. Nancy is just pissed that some of the vast power imbalance in dating where women hold the high ground got leveled out a little, at least for the top 10-20% of men.

Of course she has a book to sell, so she must exaggerate and distort as much as possible too. Anyone writing a book must make the problem sound 100x worse than it is. And I do think a lot of women like Nancy would love to go back to patriarchy. โ€œUnfettered access to women?โ€ What the fuck does that mean? Maybe these women should be escorted by a male relative everywhere?

This is a real good example that when a power imbalance is equalized, the group that no longer has nearly all the power (in the case of dating, women) feels like they are being oppressed. Itโ€™s funny if you arenโ€™t in the dating world because sheโ€™s so put upon yet so, so wrong.