anyone who thinks romance novels are unrealistic should know i met my husband when i sat behind him at a code conf in vancouver, watching over his shoulder as he promptly changed the maple leaf screensaver he was making to a “Fuck You” screensaver during (yes) that famous keynote https://t.co/Cg8hNXY9QE

— Amy Hoy (@amyhoy) March 31, 2022

Both would be considered harassment these days, especially if a man initiated the contact.