This is excellent, and I donโt think most women realize this at all (click to make larger):
I wanted to highlight this part:
I canโt tell you how tiresome and terrible it is that everyone treats you like a predator pretty much all the time if youโre male. If this were racial discrimination it would not be tolerated or permitted. But against men? Sure, itโs all good. And I understand the reasons why, even. But that does not make it feel any better. Know how draining it is to realize that 99% of women only perceive you as an attacker, not as a friend, a comrade, or just someone to have a laugh with?
Yes, yes, women have it worse in some ways but at least they arenโt treated 24/7 as someone always on the verge of assaulting or harming anyone in the vicinity. Because men are treated that way and itโs psychologically very costly. And to women who say men โdeserve itโ because some men are in fact creepy and terrible: that logic doesnโt make any damn sense.
I know men arenโt allowed to complain about this but Iโm going to anyway, because itโs dehumanizing and a terrible way to be treated. And itโs all the time.

