When a polyamorous relationship blows up, we tend to say it was the fault of polyamory; when a monogamous relationship blows up, we tend to say it was the fault of anything else *but* the monogamy – even though in many cases it was *directly caused by the structure of monogamy*!

— Aella (@Aella_Girl) November 21, 2022

I’ve noticed that too. It’s extremely strange. This is something Aella is totally right about.