OK Lettucehead

AITA for being โ€œcoldโ€ to a newish coworker?

Sounds like she brought it on herself. Women do get hit on more for sure, but Iโ€™ve also run across women like this who think every guy in the world wants them and thatโ€™s the only reason any man is talking to them ever.

They are toxic people and best avoided. They are also the ones most likely to report you to HR for a normal work interaction. So yeah, definitely stay far far away.