Do men just recognize good men? What kind of sorcery is this?

Part of if is that even terrible guys are — for a little while anyway — going to be on their best behavior around women in which they are interested.

Another part is that many women are extremely delusional about how they can “fix” the bad boys that many of them seem to love nearly unreservedly (I guess because they are exciting?). This never works. I have not seen this “fix” happen even once. So they end up with some unemployed meth-addled loser who doesn’t have any real future and doesn’t even like them.

Meanwhile, I and most other men can sense exactly who these guys are in a thirty second conversation and often much less.

And no, it’s not that I (or other men, except incels) think these women should be with them instead or that I or we’d be better for them. Frankly, I don’t want to be with someone whose ideal partner is a meth-addicted clown.

A lot of women go on and on about how much they care about their safety but then choose an objectively dangerous mega-loser who is going to perhaps kill them. Many men (including me) look at this and it just seems freakin’ crazy to us. I still do not understand how that works and I think I never will.