I lost all attraction to women.

It happens. After a bad breakup with a terrible girlfriend who was attempting to incite me into physically abusing her* (so she’d look like the “good guy” after all the horrid shit she did), I lost all attraction to women for about a year. Nada, nothing. Didn’t matter how fetching or how interested, or how available. Just no response emotionally or physically. I thought that the narcissist gf had killed my attraction and libido forever.

When that was going on, the most attractive woman in the world could’ve been begging me for a weekend together and I would’ve felt nothing other than the desire to be alone.

Eventually, though, it all came back…slowly, but it did.

*No, I did not touch her, was not even tempted. She wasn’t worth $2, much less jail time.