What are some things women complain about men that you believe is projection?

Locker room talk.

This is not really a thing that men do. Women engage in locker room talk (though not generally in a locker room) far, far more than any men do, ever. The idea of locker room talk is all projection on women’s part — because most women do in fact engage in extremely graphic descriptions of their partner’s sexual practices, anatomical characteristics, frequency and performance. With very rare exceptions, men do not do this while many women do almost as a matter of course. (And excuse it as “just girl talk.”)

And yes, I do know, because I have more than a few close female friends.

What men actually talk about in locker rooms if they talk about women at all (usually it’s just goofing around):

Man 1: Did you see Kristina? She looked hot!

Man 2: Damn she did! What are we doing for lunch?

Women’s locker room talk:

Woman 1: And then he took his pants off and his cock reminded me of my ex-boyfriends but I didn’t say anything even though it turned me off right away. And he kind of stood like he wanted me to do something, but I didn’t know what so I just laid down and he touched my thigh, but his hand was rough and that made me pull back a little so then he kissed me and that was ok but I couldn’t stop thinking about how his dick looked like my ex’s….

Woman 2: Yeah, I know what you mean. When my husband gets all sweaty and such it really turns me off and he likes to do it doggy but he’s so small so I don’t really feel anything, and so I like to use my toy but he gets upset when I do so I feel like he wishes he were bigger. And he doesn’t like it when I suck him off when he’s too tired but that’s the most fun for me because he doesn’t want to spend an hour having sex because it makes me too exhausted….

Men’s locker room talk, largely, is just not a thing. Trust me on this. Women’s locker room talk, though, is if anything even more explicit than what I wrote above.